Fudge Frosting

fudge frosting

Today would have been my dad’s 89th birthday.

Tonight, Husband and I will toast him with a little Scotch, and a piece of white cake with my mom’s Fudge Frosting. And, as we always do on February 13th, we’ll share some of our favorite memories of “Big Dave.”

He was larger than life, but a man of few words – all of them measured. And he had an uncommon common sense – which I put to test regularly with my apparent lack of it. He set the bar high… which has served all of us kids well in the long run, though we may not have been as “appreciative” of it growing up!

Here’s an example :: When I was 16, it didn’t matter that I had passed my drivers’ test and the DMV gave me a license to drive. I had to pass HIS test – which included, among other things, turning the family car completely around in our driveway – 360º – without touching the grass. If the wheels touched the grass, I had to start over. This was no small feat given that the family car was a Suburban the size of an efficiency apartment. It took a few tries, but I did it. And I earned those coveted three little words :: “Ya’ done good.”

Just yesterday, my all-time favorite saying of his rang in my ears. I’ve been on a mission to organize the basement, and was trying to hang some storage racks on the wall. My trusty drill wasn’t working, and a shortcut crossed my mind.  {We called that “jerry-rigging” growing up.} But then I heard it ::

“If you don’t have time to do it right, when will you have time to do it over?”

So I took a deep breath, ran to Home Depot, and got what I needed to finish the job well.

Uncommon common sense…

…and simple tastes. Like this cake.

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Dad, enjoying his birthday cake in 1969.

 

It’s an easy little recipe, but a perfect one. Mom spent years getting the frosting just right. {See her note at the bottom of the handwritten recipe, below!} Using a cake mix was one thing {always white, not yellow}, but we never, EVER had canned frosting.

 

fudge frosting recipe

 

Mom’s Fudge Frosting isn’t so sickeningly sweet like most bakery confections. It’s not whipped into eternal fluffiness with preservatives that I can’t pronounce. It’s just a perfect chocolatey frosting that you want to ration perfectly, so there is some of it with every bite of cake.

It’s so good that both Husband and I request this for our birthdays now. In fact, the piece in the photo is what’s left of Husband’s birthday cake – we’ve been saving it in the freezer just for Dad’s birthday.

Tonight, we’ll toast a man that I miss terribly, every single day. And we’ll polish off this deliciously simple, perfect cake – relishing every happy bite.

And I’ll be reminded that most often, what makes a recipe perfect are the memories that are served with it.

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Mom's Fudge Frosting
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Ingredients
  • ⅓ cup milk
  • ¼ cup butter
  • 1 small pkg {6 ounces} chocolate chips
  • 1 tsp vanilla
  • 2½ cups powdered sugar
Instructions
  1. Combine milk and butter in pan and bring just to a boil, stirring.
  2. Remove, add chocolate chips and vanilla. Stir until smooth.
  3. Gradually add powdered sugar. Beat until thick enough to spread.

 

 

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7 Responses to Fudge Frosting

  1. Sandi February 13, 2015 at 9:17 am #

    my favorite post of yours so far…food tied to memories. and love the way you love your dad!!

  2. Kristin February 13, 2015 at 12:49 pm #

    How sweet Morgan! Love the handwritten insert of the recipe with “dad approved”. Priceless. I miss my dad lots too but love that we have memories to cherish. Thanks for sharing!

  3. Amanda Paa February 13, 2015 at 1:11 pm #

    i love the story behind this… so sentimental. happy birthday to your dad up above, and hugs to you here! my grandmother always made a chocolate frosting that she would put on a yellow cake from a mix. will never forget exactly how it tasted and looked. xo

  4. Wendy M. Burrell February 16, 2015 at 9:48 am #

    Loved your tribute to Uncle Dave. He was a big influence on our lives too. Miss him always.

  5. Coco in the Kitchen February 19, 2015 at 12:25 pm #

    This has to be the cutest, sweetest, most special post ever.
    Thanks for sharing your family memories and that handwritten recipe.
    I’m going to save it and use it to make a chocolate sponge cake for my dad who’s bday is next month!
    xo

  6. Barb February 14, 2016 at 1:10 am #

    Marge does all things well. :-)

    • Morgan Wood February 14, 2016 at 2:32 pm #

      Hi Barb! Yes she does :)

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